The introduction of the lighting of a Unity Candle into the marriage celebration is a new ritual being requested by couples for inclusion in their Catholic Weddings. Although this practice is a lovely expression of unity, it does not have its origin in the traditions of the Catholic Faith. Unification ceremonies of this type first started appearing about ten years ago in non-religious weddings as a way of expressing unity of the couple. It can signify the joining of their families and also be used as a way to include children from previous marriages. 

Along with the unity candle you will find other forms of unification ceremonies such as the rose ceremony, the sand ceremony, the hand washing ceremony, the wine ceremony. The list may go on and on, limited only by the couples' imagination. The common thread throughout all these ceremonies seems to be a desire to acknowledge that the couple has truly become one. As you browse through the many consumer items offered for these ceremonies you will find that the market place is poised to fill that need. 

You may or may not request the inclusion of a unity candle ceremony but do not be surprised if your officiate declines to include it. He is not bound to add additional elements that are not found in The Rite of Marriage and regulations will vary from parish to parish. Keep in mind that your Catholic wedding ceremony is already a celebration of unity through liturgy, prayer, the administering of a sacrament and the participation of the congregation. The addition of further rituals will only become a repetition of what has already been expressed throughout your ceremony.